money. well for me that is okay- i mean i understand his situation, he didn't want that to happen, he got fired from his work, then i offered help, as in i gave money every sweldo to him. that lasted i guess for more or less than a year. he is 5 years older than me. at that time i was thinking if i really want him, kase as a girl, i want to be financially secure. i think almost all of the girls are like that, not naman na sobrang yaman dapat ng guy, financially secure- in my own definition, he knows how to handle his own money and knows how to save. i am not the type of girl na nagpapa libre. if i have, i'll offer my share. if wala, sinasabi ko agad sakanya. we talked about it and he promised that he will do it, not for me, but for his own good. then he got a job. he started to earn money again. kaso masyado ata siyang na-excite. when he got his money, he bought a stereo, motorcyle-which is brother nya ang gumasgas and sumira, appliances for their house-which is okay lang, ipod, cellphones, branded clothes. he is the breadwinner of the family, so i never asked anything from him. kaya his mom likes me, kase daw i helped them nung time na may financial problem sila. (hindi naman malaki sweldo ko eh, but almost half i gave it to them) and never ko iniwan anak niya. it is because i love him so much. imagine i am just a nurse here in the Philippines, the money i earned is not that big, i have my own obligations and responsibilities to my own family, but i helped them first even sobrang wala na ko. i didn't tell him that until now. he didn't know my sacrifices, because i didn't show it to him. i have to be strong for him, i have to help him, i know it was hurting his ego every time i give the money. but we have no choice. so there good for him nakahanap siya ng job.
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